Yemi Solade In Sex Mess …Sends Nude Pictures To U.S Based Lady On Facebook, Blackberry
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No doubt, star actor, Yemi Solade is very blunt, and he is as well controversial, most times criticizing his colleagues in the movie
industry on the pages of newspapers. He is one actor who will not hesitate to hit the nail on the head publicly when it comes to the ills and fake lifestyles of his colleagues. But this is definitely not the best of time for him as a United States based mother of three, Mrs. Bunmi Ladipo has accused him of harassing her
sexually.
The lady, who had been in the U.S for about 18 years now, said the embarrassing incident started about one month ago when the actor sent a friend request to her on popular social network, Facebook.
According to Mrs. Ladipo, “I accepted the friend request because I could recognize him as an actor and I didn’t envisage he would later turn out to constitute a nuisance.” The development is so infuriating to the happily married lady that she has threatened to take legal actions against the light-skinned actor.
After accepting Solade’s friend request, they started doing normal chatting, and along the line, exchanged Blackberry pin. But unknown to Mrs. Ladipo, Solade’s intention is beyond the normal relationship. Within two weeks, he eventually made his real intentions known, but the woman politely told him the mission is impossible because she is happily married, but the
actor insisted that it is no big deal because he is also married.
In the words of Mrs. Ladipo, “At that point, I started feeling embarrassed and it got to a stage that I felt it was someone impersonating him. But I got the biggest shock of my life when he started sending me his nude pictures and sorts. He later called on phone and I recorded the conversation.
In fact, that was when I was convinced that he was actually the one harassing me sexually.”
In some of the pictures sent to us, the actor snapped himself with a phone from head to chest level. He was not wearing anything. He also sent other normal pictures, and in one of them, he was with his little daughter. “He sent that one when I told him I can’t date him because I’m happily married.”
The most bizarre among the pictures is the one showing a partially erected male organ, which Mrs. Oladipo also claimed was sent to her by Yemi Solade. “If not that my husband really trust me, my marriage would have crashed. Please, I want to use this medium to beg Mr. Solade to leave me alone.
Honestly, if he is in America here, I’m sure he would be in jail by now.”
Meanwhile, the embittered lady has consulted some women advocate organizations in Nigeria
who are currently making efforts to make sure that justice is done to the case.
“I have also called my lawyer in Nigeria, so he would take it up from there,” she said.
She added that “when I informed him that I will expose him, he said people will not believe me because he is a star. He said people will rather believe his own words, not mine. And since then, he posted on his facebook page that I’m a scammer. Well, he will face the music soon because I will be in Nigeria soon as well.”
As at time of filing this report, all efforts to reach Yemi Solade proved abortive as he did not pick our calls or reply the text message
sent to his mobile number.
mr.Solade,if u are innocent you dont have to keep silent about this now ,abi you are guilty……….
chei gede gbe don gbina kabooom, some of our naija guyz dont know where to draw the line. dis dude in deep shiiiit
Mr solade u dont have to keep quite on this case because it was not just a minor thing u have to abandone just like dat and dat may tarnish ur image in the film industry. Or do u want to turn this into film for the viewers? Please you have to say something to it.
I just saw Bunmi Ladipo’s picture on Yemi Solade’s facebook page. Why did she take her pix in the bathroom if she had nothing to hide?
It looks as if she led Solade on and set him up in order to gain publicity. Solade should get a good lawyer and face the fool in court. Solade must be a womaniser sha!
She is not very pretty anyway.
http://www.facebook.com/yemi.solade?sk=wall
Its true 2 me it looks lyk a set up, well 5 mata is very complicated, newaiz let justice regin u leaders
Local actor who felt his acting prowess goes beyond Ikeja. Jail is expecting you.
I blame u Mrs LADIPO because i don’t know what kind of friendship u want from a man. I blame u YEMI for your irresponsible behaviour. U lost the respect I use to have for u.
Mrs LADIPO, I don’t know what kind of friendship u want from a man. YEMI u lost the respect I use to have for u.
only that he is not in america, if not i know where he could ve been now,i donot believe in nigeria jury cos they re corrupted agency, local yoruba champion
l am suprise people are blaming the poor man, what about a married woman chatting with a man not known to you nor your husband. Some of these married women committed loads of shit on FB, they disguised as if they don’t understand the implication of their behaviours. Opening communication with ex-boyfriends, intending ones and co…so. blame the irresponsible and woman who failled to respect her status as a married man.
am suprise people are blaming the poor man, what about a married woman chatting with a man not known to her nor your husband. Some of these married women committed loads of shit on FB, they disguised as if they don’t understand the implication of their behaviours. Opening communication with ex-boyfriends, intending ones and co…so. blame the irresponsible woman who failled to respect her status as a married woman. She brought shame to the institution and now crying wolf. One thing surely lead to other, possibly the husband got wind of her silly and illicit actions, now, playing safe.
If indeed you got your husband trust ! why bother yourself, go to any court of law as long as it is in nigeria YOU DONT HAVE A CASE.
I would say you all are missing the point. Pls, pls, what is a respectably married woman searching for on chat websites, leaving her profile open to be accessed just by anyone other than known friends? That is exactly what they are meant for, chatting people up, usually singles.
However, the above observation in no way excuses the indecency, recklessness & lack of self-respect by the actor.
The woman is right, if overseas, he would be in legai soup.
Some men & indeed women, really ought to know where to draw the line.
Thank you.
i think she isnt telling us the full gist she is hiding somethings i believe one thing led to another before exchanging of private pics. the woman is lying
Both parties are to be blamed.
How will a “married woman” accept friendship invites from “men” who are not known to either you or your hubby, you are courting trouble. Even if he’s a celebrity actor you shouldn’t have accepted the invite. A decent person to the core wouldn’t do that. FB has loads of rubbish going on there, people use it as an avenue to have illicit relationships.
we haven’t seen anything yet, what FB will do to destroy many more homes is just about exploding….. Watch out…………
Woe unto a man taken everything said by Bunmi as a gospel truth. l am 1000% convinced she is lying. How on earth would a married woman for that matter chatting a stranger not knowing to the family? Yemi cannot just send his photo without her consent, they must have discussed one or two things beforre this happened. lf her husband actually trust her, she has brought a big shame unto her family and a big disgrace to women race. Pure rubbish, shameless woman. All my friends on FB are well known to my husband. There shouldn’t be any secret of any form in marriage, she should be skinned for her wanton action. We all have past, we should not allow our past to destroy the present or disttablize the future of our children. Many married women looked for their ex on fb, accepts new catch as well, l know, they discussed rubbish, when the husband suspect, they started coursing devil.
God will bless you for your comment
All of u guys just commenting and saying rubbish,may God forgive u for saying such horrible things about an innocent woman o.u said she took pictures in the bathroom and sent it to him.can’t he copy any of her pictures from facebook and use it?so people can’t take pictures any where they want again.was she naked or taking her bath?and again can’t a married woman chat and interact freely on facebook again?its a social media for God’s sake.if she were even guilty in anyway,she wouldn’t have reported to the press at all.and moreover,he called her a scammer,saying she isn’t who she is.would a scammer be able to face the public to report such?pls and pls,yemi is the liar and the culprit here.pls be mind ful of ur conclusions so as not to sin against God
ll of u guys just commenting and saying rubbish,may God forgive u for saying such horrible things about an innocent woman o.u said she took pictures in the bathroom and sent it to him.can’t he copy any of her pictures from facebook and use it?so people can’t take pictures any where they want again.was she naked or taking her bath?and again can’t a married woman chat and interact freely on facebook again?its a social media for God’s sake.if she were even guilty in anyway,she wouldn’t have reported to the press at all.and moreover,he called her a scammer,saying she isn’t who she is.would a scammer be able to face the public to report such?pls and pls,yemi is the liar and the culprit here.pls be mind ful of ur conclusions so as not to sin against God
this woman is very stupid. dont mind her she realy wanted to cheat on her husband but backpedalled after her hubby caught her. Let assumed she didnt know his intention at the begining, and when she got to know, why didnt she just blocked yemi from her contact, boyh on fb and bb. why still picking his calls even after she was fully aware of his intentins. i only pity her husband. if yemi were to be in u.s instead of being in jail as she claimed, he would be on top of her. idiot, silly, crazy woman. yemi is a guy, though infidelity is bad,then this woman can not claim saint here,more so that she is married.
First of all… @ Sambass May the good LORD forgive you for u know nothing about but u choose to judge and lash out at an innocent woman like that. Her husband was very much aware of whats going. He sent a BBM request to her and she accepted not thinking there was any harm in that. When does facebook become a dating site only? Its used for business, social networking, meeting new and old friends…Both married and single people can use it.
Most of us know her very well and the story was true and accurate..backed up with voicenotes and evidence from the so called useless actor begging her to be his lover and she said NO. Instantly deleting and blocking him. So Mr Sambass do ur research very well before u open ur mouth and say rubbish.
@ Funke, you are a woman as suggested by your name, how on earth can a self acclaimed married woman go to the extend of exchanging personal information with another man outside her marriage. This is infidelity, you must understand the principle of marriage, this woman has something off her sleeve, the katakata burst hence trying to cover her ass. l am a woman, l will never try something like that, one need to respect her marriage and the man involved. Tell her to clean up pls.
The woman in question here is only seeking for popularity, even if she was chatting with Solade does that gives her go ahead to exchange bb ping and mobile number. This case must be thoroughly investigated there is more to what this woman is confessing here
I cant say he dint do it,cos his silence is and refusals to pok calls is sugestive.
No be world?abeg,there are no imposibu things!
After going through the facebook links pasted above…………
Me think sha, after bobo refuses to succumbed to sisi wishes na him yawa gas. Well it would be easy to search for a known person like Yemi Solade and not the other way round. So, sisi searched & added bobo, what now lead to this current fiasco is maybe after sisi oga discover the unconfortable trend sisi is plying.
i think i agree to the last writter, why will she accept a friendship from a man, when she is already married. so you got what you bargained for. unfriend him and block his post that all you need to do instead of disturbing the busy Nigerian’s with is childish reports.
Wat an insolent and disgraceful way to harass a woman dat extended a hand of friendship to an actor i loved so much but as proven to be a member of d dirty dozen.From baba suwe to countless numbers of scandals trailing our so puffed up ego killing actors and actresses who ave been so lucky to escape poverty but are always cutting trouble that will surely bring them from grace to grass.Oga yemi i thank u so much for ur thot provoken act afterall u an actor who thot by acting thru the blackberry u will achieve more fame.More grease to ur manhood dat as made u not to think before acting.
Honestly , i dont see anything bad in what he has done ,if the woman is crying foul ,she should realise that here is Nigeria and not America.
That ,implicitly interpreting picture to know which is nude and which one is not is best understood by her ,i mean her alone.i beg she better respect her self and accept being irresponsible and a sellout.
Look woman ,if you think you can just come and take people distractions away with this your anyhow Mata eehn ,you and those your stupid lawyer,say you dey wan U.s you wan show yourself ,e go red for you,what was your last conversation with this handsome man ,look just beg Your husband for forgiveness ,otherwise Nigerians are waiting for you.sham on her
I sincerely think married women should avoid making friends wit strangers on social networking sites.Fine,its a forum to make friends but experience has shown alot of men are all too willing to take d friendship to the next level.And meeting married women who for one reason or the other are not happy with their spouse,they become easy prey to smooth-talking men.this woman in question has more to tell us.All was going good between she and her lover.probably,her husband got wind and now shes playing safe.The husband should ask her how come he has her moblie number and are even friends on bbm.
Since the woman says she is coming to Nigeria to pursue the case we await that. In any suit questions will be asked from both sides of the suit. I am sure the actor will be preparing his own defence. It is only then that we shall know who is speaking the truth. But, sincerely, I don’t know why a married woman or man should begin to exchange chats with a stranger. This is morally wrong and observers could begin to draw conclusions about the possibe motives which are not far from an intention to start up a relationship! Such a conclusion could be right all the time!
It is very obvios this lady economical with the truth. She should just pray & beg her hubby for forgiveness. Or is there no more pride in being happily married?
It is very obvious this lady is being economical with the truth. She should just pray & beg her hubby for forgiveness. Or is there no more pride in being happily married?
You should be ashamed of your self if you are happily married as you indicate then your hubby should be be friend not any other men so shut the hell up you don’t have a damned case.
why cant u delete him from your facebook and ur blackberry instead of telling the whole world or before it getting to this stage
women always find a way to say there’s nothing wrong with having male friends when they know in fact that no guy approaches them without more explicit intentions. This woman is to tally wrong, first she accepted the friend request then she gave the man her pin later she gave him her personal phone number. while all this were happening did she ever mention to her husband that she met a popular Nigerian actor online? lets face fact she was wrong from the beginning
I think the woman is at fault b/cos in the first place being a marriage she shouldn’t have agree for him to be friends,why the cry
Legally observing mrs ladipo’s tale has many holes to b swallwd hook line and sinker by any judge anywher.she acceptd yemi’s request and even offerd her bb pin.and even afta hearin d intentions stil clung on.who says yemi wuldnt try wat may b wokd wit other married ladies.abeg dey shuld tel us d ful gist and stop scratchn d suface
I believe mrs ladipo is not telin d ful gist.we all know about america and the height of infidelity.
Frm a psychological point of view, d lady s 2blame. My reason(s) went 2both wall on fbk, she didnt indicate she s married, furthermore y s she taging him wit sexy pics of her? Mayb d guy refuse 2play alone. Like she said, anytin can hapn in american like downloadn a naked pix nd placing dis guys face 2 it makn it luk lyk he realy s d one… Dats wat i tink cheers!
What God has joined 2geda let no facebook put assunder.
Bunmi is a shameless woman why did she in a first please acccepted some body she dnt knw as a frd while she knws she is mrrd,there,s a disagreement beteew them that is why excalatin.
I have used blackberry in the past,why cant this woman blocked him from her contacts?
Even facebook contacts can be blocked too.
something is not right here,am not a fan of this guy mainly because i dont watch yoruba films!
it takes two to tango!
She was initially enjoying the flirting from this guy before it finally turns the other way>Pls can someon tell her to stop crying fouls over her own mistakes.
Mrs. Ladipo you are wrong in this matter. If you are happily married woman with Children as you claim, why are you looking for another male friend all over the globe? You no in Nigeria dictionary there is word “associate” between men and women.
Nigerian mentality! Because u r a local champion and u can do anything u like. Am sorry for Nigeria and we have a long way to go.
While the full gist of this matter is yet to unravel, one cannot omit the fact that men and women use FBook to commit a lot of atrocities. Especially married women using it to make contact with their ex-lovers.
It is not uncommon for women to engage in E-flirting and E-Sex (where a woman exposes herself “online” to another man , engage in sexual chat and finally reaches orgasm!…..all over video-chat medium.)
Like some have asked: Since you are “happily married”,
1.) Why accept another “strange male” on FBook?
2.) Did you tell your husband when you accepted him as a friend?
3.) Why go as far as giving him your BB-Pin and personal phone number (which shows that you encouraged the level of friendship to go beyond just FBook, but to get to an intimate level!)
4.) Is it true that you sent him your own pictures (nude or otherwise) as well? If you say he “photoshoped yours, then we can assume you also photoshoped his own!).
5.)Why did you not simply “block him off” from the first notice of his intention, on your FBook and BB?..after-all, he is in Nigeria and you are in U.S.
Why did you keep encouraging him to send more pix and make amorous phone calls? So you can “snag” him? Or is it because your husband caught you unexpectedly?
That the “West” allows women to harass and intimidate men with claims of sexual harassment does not mean women can also get away with this kind of behavior in Nigeria.
By the time you loose the court case, he will also sue you for damages and “legal costs” and since the “crime” happened in Nigeria (at least the guy was in Nigeria when you alleged the sexual harassment)…and the case has been tried in Nigeria, the U.S court will simply differ to the ruling in Nigeria and there goes your court case….in smoke!
You are a Devil and your husband needs to be alert ‘cos l am sure you will still cheat on him with someone else, if you have not already been doing so.
Shameless Akata!